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	<title>The Straits Times Blogs &#187; Seow Kai Lun</title>
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		<title>Spending time, not money, with kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 08:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Seow Kai Lun</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[ST's Home Ground]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Seow Kai Lun looks at the repercussions of compensating time with money.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>THE&nbsp;ignorance of teens and their money confounded me as I spoke to many for my <a href="http://www.straitstimes.com/Singapore/Story/STIStory_312937.html">recent article</a>.</p>
<p>Yes, I know that they come from a sheltered generation, not really knowing what the current economic situation is, and what being &lsquo;without&rsquo; is like.</p>
<p>But in this day and age of readily-available, can there really be teens ignorant of the current financial situation?</p>
<p>Apparently, the answer is yes.</p>
<p>The ease with which a teen digs into his wallet to hand money over to a cashier amazed me.</p>
<p>As a teen, for example, I never got a mobile phone till much later when all my peers had one and my parents finally conceded there might be a need for one. Since then, while studying in university and living in the hall without a fixed phone line, I managed to live within my humble mobile subscription plan.</p>
<p>Yet countless of teens that I spoke to testified to constant struggles to keep within the $50 plans they're on - despite blithely admitting to hogging the fixed line at home too.</p>
<p>When probed further about the extent of their expenditure, however, I realised that many of them did not getmuch face time with their parents - only a meagre few enjoying the luxury eating dinner together with their parents.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Compensating for parental absence appears to be the key reason why teens seem not to worry about where money comes from nor spending it.</p>
<p>A financial expert I spoke to admitted to resorting to precisely this brand of monetary compensation for the lack of time that he spends with his child.</p>
<p>It's no wonder then that, to the young, to buy or not to buy is no longer the question. Love is, instead, equated with allowances and purchases.</p>
<p>Perhaps for parents, the question needs to be: To spend time or to spend money?</p>
<p>It's an important balance to achieve, not just from the parents' work-life perspective, but also to prevent the next generation from growing up spending beyond their means - as individuals and as an economy.</p></p>
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