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Serene Goh
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Cyberbullying = warfare?
August 15, 2008 Friday, 02:18 PM

Serene Goh examines the big bad world of the Internet.


WITH its arsenal of free-form cyber weaponry, the Internet has had a Lord Of The Flies effect on the youth of today. 

In this online frontier, the rules of engagement are still being invented by the people who know it best – never mind that they are just children. 

The Straits Times surveyed 100 youths who all said they had been stung one way or another by online venom; this, long before even reaching the legal age for drinking.

In gaming circles, they are subjected to any number of insults, taunts and put-downs, say veteran youth gamers, who in the same breath add that they themselves do some of that bullying. 

Others say that at schools, classroom disagreements are taken outside – and launched into all-out battles in cyberspace. Petty jealousies, grievances and grouses are no longer settled with just playground fistfights, but viciously perpetuated at online blogs, forums and social networking sites.

Yes, it’s hard out there for a kid.

Let loose in a world beyond the protection of their parents, they are exposed to a harsh cruelty which was previously muted by lower-grade technology. 

A generation ago, a poison-pen letter could be linked to its author by its handwriting, and disseminating it called for some financial outlay – there were stamps to think about, envelopes to be purchased, photocopies to be paid for.

Not anymore.

When you arm even a responsible, sane adult with a loaded gun, it is possible to expect grievous hurt. Imagine then, what is happening to young persons, still prone to easy tantrums, who have posionous missiles at the touch of their keyboards? 

William Golding’s allegory of what unleashes the baser aspects of human nature made his book a classic. If his observations are anything to go by, we can expect the worst.

Already, in the United States, cases of suicide have resulted from relentless cyberbullying attacks.

It is not hard to see why.

To hear someone say something nasty about you is one thing – those effects do not linger in speech bubbles, thankfully, as they do in comic books. 

It’s quite something else to read a slur about your looks, your weight, your character, your flaws, writ large and bold, in 24-point font for the world to see. 

Words, aimed at a hypersensitive young psyche, can have a corrosive effect on the spirit.

Already, youth we spoke to revealed a disturbing desperation about cyberbullying.

They fear having their personal information hijacked and turned into something like pornography. Victims feel they can trust no one, without knowing their assailants’ real identities. 

In the worst instances, some even contemplate ending their lives.

Does such inner turmoil deserve a place among youths? Or is it better off as a diary entry of a prisoner of war?

Then again, maybe this is war, and it is time for keepers of young people’s well-being to prepare for combat.

Be afraid. Be very afraid.



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Total comments: 4
naruto_81
August 16, 2008 Saturday

Cyber bullies should be ashame of themselves. Attacking netizens or people they know in real life behind the computer screen is such a cowardly act. The fact that the cyber world is a such a liberated platform, we should all learn to protect ourselves from such cowardly bullies as there have been many tragic cases when the cyber bullying spiralled out of control. Be quick to point out to the necessary authorities should it happen to you.

rain83@singnet.com.sg

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chummycheryl
August 16, 2008 Saturday

Hiding behind an anonymous nick where a face can't put to one's nasty comments, it is not hard to see how seemingly mild people in real life can take on a twisted nature in the virtual world. What comes around goes around, the best tactic when being cyber-bullied is to just ignore the ignorant and move on.

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silverkick
August 16, 2008 Saturday

Technology, despite all its benefits, does indeed bring about the dire situation about cyberbullying. Nonetheless, bullying is perhaps by far a concept that has existed for a long time. As the internet era matures, isn't it time for more education about protecting oneself in the internet to be set in place at a younger age. Still, as certain scenarios can help prevail some aspects of cyberbullying, maybe it is time to look at how a stronger sense of resilience can be instilled in the youths of today.

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kapilan_sg
August 15, 2008 Friday

The power to remain anonymous is being misused by today's youth in the online space. It is easy to hide in cyberspace and this is giving the courage to resort to cyberbullying and picking up virtual fights. As the internet matures, there will be peer policing which will help us ignore such cyberstalkers. sambhar.mafia@gmail.com

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