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Wong Mei Ling
Journalist, Foreign Desk
Hospitality from the heart
October 12, 2008 Sunday, 06:48 AM
Wong Mei Ling discovers a different kind of social capital in rural China.
In Loufan, Shanxi Province TRAVELLING from the big city to the provincial outskirts of China's capital is like stepping off a cold concrete pavement onto a carpet of grass. The city is orderly and predictable but cold and impersonal. But as one enters into the rural periphery of Shanxi Province, the people are warmer, more forthcoming and genuine. In a township I visited up in Loufan county called Miaowan with a humanitarian team, our host was effusively apologetic for what they thought were very poor conditions we had to endure up in the mountains. Miaowan Township is the poorest township in Loufan with a population of 8,999 people scattered across a dry and inhospitable hilly terrain. "Ni men xing ku le," our host kept saying to us, which means "we apologise for putting you through so much hardship". Here I was met with a different kind of 'social capital'. One that the modern city of Beijing or Singapore for that matter, lack - hospitality from the heart. There were no walls about the locals. Their hand shakes, their smiles and their 'thank yous' were not a choreographed display of etiquette like that of the Olympics. While they spared no efforts to present their best to us, it was not out of pride or pomp, but a sincere desire to give of their best to their guests. "Up here in the village, we are more backward, so we are not able to offer you the same comforts as in the city. But we hope you will bear with us," Mr Yang Bing, Director of the Taiyuan (Municipality) Poverty Reduction & Development Office, said in Mandarin at the lunch table after we had checked in to our accommodation. In all honesty, our conditions were far from uncomfortable and as we visited the various villages in the township, farmers came up to us with fresh vegetables from their fields as a token of their hospitality. Their voices were boisterous, like those I encountered at the Beijing airport, but the tone was characteristically different. It was one of excitement and jubilation. It was far too short a visit but it left me wondering, while this place sits far removed from the relentless development in the city, is there something in this place that still needs protecting - its social fabric? While we progress in the accumulation of economic capital, have we been too quick to exchange that for the regression of real human capital - that of affection without pretension, cooperation without intention, and generosity without condition? Tags: china
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very well observed and your concluding thought is spot on. MM said Indians must do away with the 'romance of the village', and while in the interests of faster growth, increased urbanisation is unavoidable and the villages will be subsumed into the cities, surely, the 'romance' in these villages should be retained. that is, as you rightly point out, the social fabric. the most difficult planning question would then be: how can we conserve the software while changing the hardware? what sort of urban spaces can ensure the survival of the village social fabric? i do not think this is something singapore can provide much, if any advise on, for when we planned our communities, we basically did away with the older ones - i.e. kampungs etc..
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Conditional generousity is not true hospitality. Singapore is catching up generously with natural kindness among citizens and foreigners too. Glad you blog about your observation here. Keep your blog alive
While we appreciate the virtue of the sincere, unpretentious villagers, they are often taken advantage by greedy city dwellers and businessmen. Once the villagers come into contact with city dwellers, they will quickly learn the ethics of the city dwellers in order to survive, this is the price we pay for development.